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6 sex tips to try on Valentine’s Day

6 sex tips to try on Valentine's Day
An an glorious Valentine’s Day to you too (Picture: Dave Anderson for Metro.co.uk)


You have done it by Christmas and Skint January and now we’re here with one tiny jump – Valentine’s Day.

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As a couple, the vigour can mountain up. What benefaction should we get? Where do we go for a meal? Is there any possibility we could ask if we can forget it altogether though scornful my partner?

Valentine’s Day started in the 3rd century when St Valentine was executed for marrying people in secret. He was killed on 14 February, leaving a minute sealed ‘Your Valentine’ to his love.

So instead of fobbing off Valentine’s Day, or getting lost in the vigour of it all, remember St V and his final day.

Don’t provide Valentine’s Day like it’s your first, or as if it has to be the best day – provide it like it’s your last.

Far from being maudlin, this mindset competence help you learn new and sparkling things to try with your partner. Here are a few ideas that will hopefully help you on the way.

Try a new space

Hire a hotel room, an AirBnB, or even one of the spas and saunas which are there to help couples have an insinuate moment.

But just going into a opposite place can help you feel like you’re trying something new. It doesn’t have to be a oppulance hotel (but it helps), just somewhere where you’re not going to find yourselves doing the same things since you’re in the same places.

Plus it can be something to demeanour brazen to. You can arrive with a whole different, some-more risqué habit than you would wear normally.

Deny yourself entrance to those things which can be a enticement to just lay and not enjoy a bit of experimentation; Netflix, pyjamas and the take-away menus.

Start the day together

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Morning sex. When was the last time you had it though worrying about work, sleep, the kids coming in etc?

Set yourself up for starting the day off with a lovely shag. This is just the start, so you don’t need to hook yourselves into any kismet sutra positions, just keep it elementary and enjoy.

I suggest saving the entertainment for later, and if anyone wants to know because you competence be late for work – tell them to use their imaginations


You don’t have to be spending the day detached for this to help get the blood flowing, even if you’re right next to any other it can just be easier to contend what you wish to do or try around technology.

If you’re in a new relationship, and maybe the trust just isn’t there but you still wish to try it, get a opposite SIM card. You also positively don’t have to send pictures to make it racey.

Check out the accessible ‘How To’ beam if you’re looking for inspiration.

Don’t go out to dinner

Don’t do it to yourselves!

You can go out to cooking any other day, but there are so many reasons to equivocate it

‘Where do you wish to go? we don’t mind’ is the first judgment that will means an argument.

While you competence consider that fixation the responsibility on the other person to find a place for cooking is ‘a treat’ (‘Because we’ll go where YOU wish to go!’), it is actually a ruin of a lot of regretful labour.

You wish to find somewhere romantic, but not too seedy.

You wish to find somewhere with good food, but won’t mangle the bank.

You wish to find somewhere where you can chat, but won’t eventually be filled with other dead-eyed couples desperately trying to be romantic.

Even after all that, you’ll have to postponement while some bell-end will get on their knee, propose, and you’ll have to demeanour happy about it.

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No. Don’t do it.

Also, have you ever eaten a lovely 3 march dish and suspicion ‘Yeah, what we really wish to do is get jaunty in the bedroom’?

Plus it increases the chances of you both getting beaten on wine.

Instead, get food you can eat via the evening. Food you can play with. Food you’ll happily eat in bed at midnight when you’re naked, sweaty and exhausted.


Now that you’ve saved your dinner-money, spend it on porn! It doesn’t have to be decrepit free-porn, because not try having fun with a web-cam model?

There are now hundreds you can select from who will act as ‘boss’ in the bedroom, get them to confirm what your evening’s activities are going to be and/or watch them do what you’re into.

If you’re feeling flash, you can also get tradition porn – pornographers who will order whatever your fantasies are.

If you’re feeling voyeuristic you can watch couples on a webcam, or show off to one if you’re into a bit of exhibitionism.


If you wish to try something some-more risqué than a blindfold and handcuffs, conduct out to a Munch, break or illusion fair to collect up some ideas, impulse and recommendation from those in the know.

These are good for not only assisting you learn some-more about any kinks you’re into, but also exposing yourself to many you competence never have listened of.

Both of you should go with an open-mind, but you should also be wakeful of your own boundary – make it transparent what you’re really not into.

Make it YOUR day

I know V-Day may seem like pretentious commercialisation, but you’re really lucky.

There are many singletons dreading the day, and other people who are in prolonged stretch relations who wish they could spend it together.

Fobbing it off seems like such a waste, but even if you don’t wish to do it on 14 Feb itself, just try to have any day together.

Even if it’s on the 15th when the hotels are half the price…

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